As an FMLA member, this was a great feminist event - 1 - Megan is insanely empowering! 2 - we were able to pull in a lot of student's that wouldn't necessarily come to a FMLA meeting/event because her workshops are about improving one's sexual awareness and skills .
Campus clubs were able to collaborate on bringing Megan to campus because she is both health and pleasure focused and fantastically entertaining.
Megan is about to launch an exciting new project, The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health, with a *Grand Opening* this month in Rhode Island. To give you a chance to get to know her better and an opportunity to come to the Grand Opening where there will be lots of food, fun, give-aways and famous sex-positive feminist activists, here is an exerpt of my interview with Megan:
E: So Megan, what do you do?
M: I work as a sexuality educator in many different formats. The majority of my time is spent providing workshops at colleges and universities on topics relating to sexual pleasure and health (the focus being more on the pleasure and intertwining health in). [...] I work within the medical community, teaching medical students and providers how to be sex positive doctor's, educating them on common concerns/questions and topics the public holds (but that they aren't taught in med school) and finally, how to provide safe, non-threatening, empowering pelvic exams. And I do that with the use of my body (vagina, brain and mouth). [...and] I work within the media as a public policy analyst regarding sexual rights challenges to our freedoms.
M: A feminist is something I would most identify myself as. My passion, my life work's, all of my reading materials and a day to day way of life for me. To me, being a feminist is all about giving people options. The option to do this or that, go into one field vs. another, to become a sex worker, to be monogamous to one person only, choose one type of birth control over another, etc. Being a feminist means challenging others and yourself. When you feel uncomfortable, ask yourself why? When someone says something you don't agree with or don't understand, ask them why? It's only through the option of challenging others, which is a right we have fought for and won, that we grow and change the world for the better. We can't just accpet what we have, we have to want to build upon it.
That's what being a feminist and a sex educator is to me. Options. Challenging. When people go to my workshops, yes I want them to have fun and learn, but I also want them to ask questions with the information I provide! I want to push people! Because really, those questions are going to spark a change in the future. New research, new standards of roles one can possess, totally new concepts can occur when you don't accept what is laid before you.
E: How did you get involved in the world of sexuality?
M: There are three answers I give to this question. The fun and easy answer is I had a knack for memorizing sex facts, don't ask me why. I had a knack for memorizing sexual issues and it was a social issue, a perfect fit for me. At first I wanted to be a sex therapist, but I quickly found out that I wanted to help people BEFORE they ended up with sexual issues, so I went into education.
Secondly, being a Sexuality Educator was a way for me to rebel against the way a girl was supposed to behave. My parents subscribed to strict gender role behaviors and "good girls don't talk about sex". When I decided this was going to be my career path, I choose to tell my parents in a restaurant so they couldn't freak out on me. The first thing that was said was Oh! Megan! Girls can't do that! Typical. but that's also why I choose to name my company Oh Megan! because my mother was always saying that to me for talking about sexually related topics. Oh Megan! That's inappropriate. :)
Thirdly, I think I became involved in the world of sexuality because after I was raped, no one would talk to me about it. I didn't have a space where I could fully disclose because people were uncomfortable and didn't know how to handle the conversation. It seemed strange to me, and I was angry that our culture talks so much about sex, but we don't provide answers when people have questions and concerns. I think becoming a sex educator was a way for me to work out some of my issues, get answers to my questions and to provide a space so others wouldn't feel alone or ashamed for what they were thinking or had experienced.
M: There are three answers I give to this question. The fun and easy answer is I had a knack for memorizing sex facts, don't ask me why. I had a knack for memorizing sexual issues and it was a social issue, a perfect fit for me. At first I wanted to be a sex therapist, but I quickly found out that I wanted to help people BEFORE they ended up with sexual issues, so I went into education.
Secondly, being a Sexuality Educator was a way for me to rebel against the way a girl was supposed to behave. My parents subscribed to strict gender role behaviors and "good girls don't talk about sex". When I decided this was going to be my career path, I choose to tell my parents in a restaurant so they couldn't freak out on me. The first thing that was said was Oh! Megan! Girls can't do that! Typical. but that's also why I choose to name my company Oh Megan! because my mother was always saying that to me for talking about sexually related topics. Oh Megan! That's inappropriate. :)
Thirdly, I think I became involved in the world of sexuality because after I was raped, no one would talk to me about it. I didn't have a space where I could fully disclose because people were uncomfortable and didn't know how to handle the conversation. It seemed strange to me, and I was angry that our culture talks so much about sex, but we don't provide answers when people have questions and concerns. I think becoming a sex educator was a way for me to work out some of my issues, get answers to my questions and to provide a space so others wouldn't feel alone or ashamed for what they were thinking or had experienced.
E: The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health sounds incredible. Can you talk about the relationship between the sex-positive world and the medical world?
M: My work's mission is to join these two world together so I had to create The Center!
Too often the medical world turns it's back on the pleasure-focused side of sex and the pleasure-focused world is totally bored by the medical world. But they need each other to survive! The Center will be a respectable entity for medical providers to work with and is already developing ties with Boston University, Brown University, Mass General Hospital and the Robert Wood Johnson Medical Schools.
Working with professionals in the medical field, and most importantly, with medical students, we can create change within the medical school curriculum. Some medical students are starting to chime in that they want more sexuality information. (The majority of med students have 12 hours of sex education composed of birth control, pregnancy, STD's and sometimes, pregnancy terminations.) I am working closely with Boston University Medical School and the Robert Wood Johnson Medical School to develop sexuality curriculum with fundamental structural changes.
Outside of the medical world, it's important to remember that most people want to understand their body; what's taking place within them. Traditionally, that information has been withheld from the public, but the feminist and pro-sex communities have some of the best documentations and discussions on sex and sexual health data.
Outside of the medical world, it's important to remember that most people want to understand their body; what's taking place within them. Traditionally, that information has been withheld from the public, but the feminist and pro-sex communities have some of the best documentations and discussions on sex and sexual health data.
The Center's focus will be education and advocacy work. The CSPH will be the perfect blend of health, pleasure and advocacy. There will be written & visual resources, medical journals pertaining to sexual issues available, toys (with education on what we would/wouldn't recommend), kink-friendly resources, sexual health and rights speakers, medical and pro-sex positive resources available for loan right from the start, and in the spring, offer a certification series for sex education classes with C.E. credits.
E: Are there any opportunities to get involved with the center either as an individual or as a campus organization?
M: Yes! The best way to get involved would be to attend the grand opening on Sept 26th in Pawtucket, RI. The grand opening will be a fund raising event and feature some of the best and brightest individuals in the field! Sex educators, sex therapists, sex worker advocates, authors, and sexual right advocates will be speaking and you can schmooze with them after they speak. (Scheduled speakers include Carol Queen, Bill Taverner, Betty Dodson, Gina Ogden, oh yeah, and me!) Tables with community and national resources will be throughout the location so people can learn more about resources they might not have known about.
You can also attend classes and workshops which will start in the fall and in the spring, apply to be an intern! As a campus organization, if you can't come to us, we can come to you and talk about sexual advocacy issues, starting a nonprofit, getting into the field, etc.
E: How can I get you to come to my campus?!
M: Contact Seraphin and Lisa at Phinli Bookings (PhinLi Bookings, LLC), a new LGBTQ and sex positive booking agency placing artists, performers, authors, theorists, lecturers, sex educators, activists, comedians, musicians, dancers, film makers and more on the college and university circuit. The email address is seraphin@phinli.com
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