Showing posts with label LGBTQ equality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label LGBTQ equality. Show all posts

Monday, October 11, 2010

Lots of Coverage, Very Little Plan for Action

The online news media has been in a frenzy this week after the fifth gay youth in three weeks took his own life. Everyone from the Huffington Post, the Advocate, to Washington Post bloggers have buzzed about Raymond Chase, the latest student to have committed suicide, often quoting the email that administrators sent to the Johnson & Wales University student body after Chase died.

In his email, JWU Vice President of Student Affairs and Dean of Students Ronald Martel mourned Chase's passing and offered condolences to the family. Unfortunately, his message stopped there. No mention of how to prevent such a thing from happening again, no mention of possible problems that needed to be tackled, no mention of anything.

But the school's vice president is not the only one - many major news sources have continued this trend, giving the issue lots of coverage with very little plan of action on how to help alleviate the environments causing these teens to turn to suicide. Even the statement issued by US Secretary of Education Arne Duncan called for an end to harassment and a need to speak out against such forms of intolerance. But no actual solutions towards enacting the VERY change they all call for was ever mentioned.

This spree of suicides is proof that the current system is failing. It is time to ask the hard questions to get the core of these problems in order to implement real change and prevent even more loss of life. Students on Facebook formed a group encouraging activists across the country to wear purple on October 20th in light of the recent deaths. For more information, check out the group Wear Purple on October 20th, 2010. For a country that calls itself the land of the free, freedom from harassment and bullying is still not in the cards for everyone.

So....Step up and help! Contact your local campus officials and demand them to make school a safe and friendly place to be, ask them what resources are available and if there are none inform the larger public! Everyone has a right to a bully and harassment free life.

Contact and join your LGBT group on campus. No LGBT friendly group or groups on campus? Create one! Not enough people or members? Ally with like minded groups on campus and rally for change. October 20th could be a really great day to gain attention on individual campuses and spread the word. Need help with your plans of action? Campus Pride, a nonprofit organization aimed at making colleges more LGBT friendly, offers more information on helping making campuses more open and friendly.

Remember, bullying and harassment affects everyone. While your college campus is a great place to start please do not forget about your local community. Bullying and harassment can start at a young age, use your new found club or your group of friends to reach out to near by schools and volunteer for their antibullying or antiharassment programs. Make a positive change with a plan of action.

For Equality!

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Thank You Thursday! 07/29/2010



We are excited to announce that we are adding a new weekly series of blog posts known as "Thank You Thursday!" Our "Thank You Thursday" posts will include a list of people who have done or said something pro-woman that we appreciate. We hope you enjoy seeing who is doing positive work!
This Thursday, we would like to thank:
  • U.S. District Judge Susan Bolton for blocking several key passages of Arizona's new immigration law SB 1070
  • Memphis City Council Member Janis Fullilove for supporting a proposed LGBT antidiscrimination policy even when faced with death threats
  • ESPN Reporter Erin Andrews for advocating for the STALKERS Act
  • Speaker of the U.S. House of Representatives Nancy Pelosi and Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid for their efforts to get the Dream Act passed

THANK YOU!!!!!

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Forced Marriage can "Correct" Gay Men


The U.K.'s Forced Marriage Unit (FMU) reports that there was a 65% increase in the calls reporting cases of men in forced marriage in 2009. The unit received 134 calls and emails in 2008, but the following year, FMU received 220 calls and emails reporting male victims.


Last year, men in Britain made up a 14% of the 1,682 forced marriage cases total reported. However, under-reporting has led FMU to believe that there could be a total of 10,ooo British citizens in forced marriage. In addition, they estimate that 20% of these cases involve a male victim.


According to Foreign Office Minister Jeremy Browne, men find it harder than women to ask for help when faced with forced marriage. With few men coming forward, young men between the age of 15 and 24 years continue to face physical and sexual violence, confinement and at times, being sent to other countries for not complying with their families' wishes.


Why is this happening to men? Hasn't forced marriage usually been a problem for women?


While many think of forced marriage as a crime that occurs against women, men also experience this form of human trafficking. Unsurprisingly, men are subjected to forced marriage because they are gay or their families believe that they might be gay. Reinforcing the societal expectation of heterosexuality, families use forced marriage as a means to "correct" a man's sexual orientation.

I also just want to point out that homosexuality is one reason that some women have been subjected to forced marriage. There is no reason that anyone, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation (or any other reason!), should be forced into marriage.



Photo Credit: BBC News

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Doctor trying to prenatally treat lesbianism? SAY WHAT?!

Yes. You heard right. Dr. Maria New of the Florida International University and her colleague Heino F. L. Meyer-Bahlburg of Columbia University are using the drug dexamethasone on pregnant women in order to prevent their female fetuses from being homosexual or bisexual. Dexamethasone is an experimental drug that is used to try to treat female fetuses with congenital adrenal hyperplasia (CAH), a genetic defect that affects the hormone production of the adrenal glands and in females can result in an increase in androgens and "masculinized" genitals (typically considered to be a clitoris larger than deemed normal). It is a class C drug, which means that it is unknown whether dex can harm a fetus. New and Meyer-Bahlburg believe that one's sexual orientation could be connected to prenatal androgens prenatal stage, and that treatment with dex could be used to change a fetus' sexual orientation.

As if that weren't bad enough, Meyer-Bahlburg goes on to describe the behavior of those with CAH: “CAH women as a group have a lower interest than controls in getting married and performing the traditional child-care/housewife role. As children, they show an unusually low interest in engaging in maternal play with baby dolls, and their interest in caring for infants, the frequency of daydreams or fantasies of pregnancy and motherhood, or the expressed wish of experiencing pregnancy and having children of their own appear to be relatively low in all age groups.” (You can read the article where I got this quote here. It also has a link to the paper where Meyer-Bahlburg said this.) Now, I don't have CAH, but that sounds like normal childhood to me. I hated dolls. I didn't want to be pregnant. I can't ever remember having a "fantasy" of pregnancy. I was perfectly ok with the idea of a stork bringing the baby. That certainly sounded better than the alternative, and what I later found out to be true.

But this research has many consequences (listed in no particular order because they are all frightening).

First, the fact that research like this is even happening is an ethical concern. Many anti-abortion activists will rant and rave about how abortionists are trying to exterminate races by performing "selective race" abortions, but then here we have doctors trying to eliminate different types of sexuality through prenatal treatment. And writing academic papers about it! The ethical implications of "curing" differing sexualities have been debated for decades, but apparently have fallen on deaf ears of New and Meyer-Bahlburg.

Second, this research implies that there is only one normal and acceptable form of female behavior. And that's "I only have one purpose in life, making babies" behavior. So all of you who wanted to be play the doctor instead of the nurse, abnormal female behavior (ironic since Maria New is a female doctor). For all of you who didn't like baby dolls, abnormal female behavior. Those of you who didn't like to play house, abnormal female behavior. This approach completely ignores every single difference between sex and gender, not to mention some of the major points of the women's rights movement. This opens the gates to researching ridiculous gender stereotypes as proven science and biological nature, like trying to prove that girls are genetically predisposed to pink.

Third, it frames LGBTQIA (Intersex and Asexual) people not as human beings, but as diseased inferiors who need to be removed from society. Call me radical, but research like this sounds an awful lot like the beginning of eugenics. This isn't just the regular anti-gay rhetoric you hear from protesters at Pride, or even from some of the more radical anti-gay extremist groups. It's one thing to be called an abomination. It's another to have doctors out there actively working on a cure for you, a vaccine to prevent people like you from existing.

And lastly, (though we could go on and on) it belittles the experiences of those women who have CAH and other intersex individuals. Intersex people face a lot of mistreatment by the medical industry, such as forced gender correction surgeries at birth and throughout their life, constant hormone replacement, and being judged by arbitrary standards that are defined by those who can't understand their position. One measure of whether a woman is intersex is by measuring the length of the clitoris. If it's too big, then she can be deemed intersex and have gender correction surgery where they cut the clitoris down to a "normal" size (this often leaves that individual with limited or no sensation in their clitoris as they grow older). Trying to prenatally treat fetuses so that they do not behave "abnormally" for their gender as prescribed for their sex erases those who may not have a sex recognized by our binary society, even though they're already invisible in our world of only male and female options.

This is some dangerous medicine.
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Photo Credit: peasap on flickr.com
Cross-posted at Ode to Patriarchy

Friday, April 16, 2010

What if the Visitation Rights that were given to Same Sex couples were inclusive of those couples in which one partner is serving in the military?

This week President Obama signed a directive that would allow same sex partners hospital visitation rights if the one of them were to fall ill. Granting same sex couples the right to be beside their loved one as they pass (if the illness or injury is fatal) was a decision that came after hearing a story in which a woman was denied the right to hold her lover as her spouse died. Before the signed directive same sex partners would be denied visitation due to the fact that they were not considered family by blood or legally wed.

Of the 1,138 rights that are denied to same sex couples because same sex marriage is not legal in every state, hospital visitation was only one of them. Currently same sex marriage is legal in only 5 states as well as Washington D.C. Unfortunately under of the Defense of Marriage act (DOMA), same sex couples that legally wed in a state that allows same sex marriages will have an annulled marriage license once they return back to their state where same sex marriage licenses are not recognized. Obama has it in his agenda to repeal that as well as the controversial military ban on gays and lesbians serving openly known as Don’t ask Don’t tel (DADT)l.

I must say that although I am grateful to have this single right granted to me, I am disappointed with how he went about the issue. It should not take a story of sorrow to make one understand that love is not a bad thing even if it is between two people of the same sex. Love should not be taken away or toyed with it should not be a bargaining tool for votes. Instead of signing this directive that grants rights to only some of the LGBTQ community why don’t you do what is humane and repeal DADT and DOMA. Under DADT a civilian in a same sex relationship with a soldier cannot visit them openly if the soldier is wounded in battle therefore this directive does not extend rights to all LGBTQ couples. If he had repealed DOMA same sex couples could marry elsewhere in the U.S. and still have a legal marriage license upon return to their state. If DOMA was repealed, then the rights given to those married could be applicable to all same sex couples who are wed anywhere in the United States. If his adminstartion repealed both DADT and DOMA then the lesbian and gays serving our military could wed. Is this the next step? What he did was good for the community but I find that it was nothing great. It was fair and right but it was something that should have been done a long time ago.


P.S.- Celebrate National Day of Silence today!!


Photo compliment of See-ming Lee

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Prop 8 Trial: Everything You Need to Know

By now, you’re probably somewhat familiar with Proposition 8 – the 2008 California ballot initiative that eliminated the right of same sex couples to marry. But have you been keeping up with the status of Perry v. Schwarzenegger, the federal trial challenging Prop 8’s constitutionality? We’ve got the lowdown on the ongoing federal trial right here for you and it has got some juicy details on the anti-gay movement’s tactics.

Prop 8 added a few little words to the California Constitution that have made a huge impact: “Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California”. In May 2008, the California Supreme Court granted same sex couples the right to marry, but when Prop 8 passed in November 2008 by a 52-48 margin, same sex couples were stripped of that right.

What caused voters in one of the nation’s most progressive states to pass this discriminatory proposition? A very carefully orchestrated “Yes on 8” campaign based on fear and outright lies, to put it bluntly.

According to Audrey Bilger , a professor of Women’s Studies at the Claremont McKenna colleges in Southern California, when first researching public opinion on same sex marriage, the Yes on 8 campaign found that overwhelmingly, people who believed that marriage should be between a man and woman would still vote “no” on Prop 8 because they essentially felt that whether or not same sex couples were allowed to marry, their lives would not be affected (which is true).

So, the Yes on 8 campaign had quite a predicament on their hands: even their conservative base wasn’t with them. But, that did not dissuade these feisty fear-mongers! They quickly realized that all they had to do to sway public opinion in their favor was make people believe that if same sex couples were allowed to marry, their lives would be affected.

Let the lies begin. Gay marriage will be taught in schools. Churches will be forced to perform same sex weddings. Polygamy will be legalized. Pedophilia will be rampant. And the next thing you know, you’ll be able to marry your cat. Yes, we heard them all, and oh, how I wish I were joking. To make matters worse, these lies were very well financed (thank you Mormon Church, among others).

Inundated with ads spreading lies and now brainwashed into believing same sex marriage was dangerous to society (despite truly incredible grassroots organizing efforts from a huge coalition of No on 8 folks), what was the average uninformed voter to do? We all know how this turns out…

Luckily, the story continues!

Two same sex couples in California have joined forces with attorneys Ted Olsen and David Boies (who opposed each other in Bush v. Gore in 2000) to challenge the federal constitutionality of Prop 8. The Perry v. Schwarzenegger suit states, “The unequal treatment of gays and lesbians denies them the basic liberties and equal protection under the law that are guaranteed by the Fourteenth Amendment of the United States Constitution”. Essentially, the plaintiff is seeking to prove that Prop 8 unfairly discriminates against a particular class of citizens – gays and lesbians. This approach tackles the issue as a matter of constitutional law, with marriage as a basic right, which is being denied.

The trial began on January 11, 2010 and was heard by U.S. District Court Judge Vaughn R. Walker, who has a track record of siding with LGBT rights. There were two weeks of testimony on behalf of the Prop 8 challengers, followed by 2 days (and a mere 2 witnesses) for the defense to make its case (and not well, I might add).

All testimony has been heard at this point but Judge Walker has asked to postpone the closing arguments until Feb. 26. It is widely thought that all decisions will be appealed until the case reaches the U.S. Supreme Court. So for now, we wait….and get the scoop on what went down in that courtroom.

Or at least we try. Complicating matters, the defense specifically asked that cameras not be allowed in the courtroom, in apparent concern that their witnesses would be targeted and harassed for expressing anti-same-sex marriage viewpoints. Judge Walker asked for public comment on the matter and within 3 days he had received more than 138,000 online signatures in favor of allowing the trial to be broadcast on YouTube. He received 32 in opposition. Well, well…we know who’s got the grassroots organizing skillzzz!

That settled the matter and Walker granted permission for video cameras. However, the defense appealed the decision to the U.S. Supreme Court, who (possibly in a preview of what’s to come), side 5-4 with the defense, in opposition to allowing cameras in the courtroom. Apparently, the court only has an obligation to prevent you from harassment and discrimination if you’re not gay.

The real reasons for not allowing cameras are pretty evident. When a campaign is based on fabricated scare tactics and outright lies, you sure don’t want everyone who donated to you and voted for your cause to see your entire platform crumble under legal scrutiny. In his HuffPost op-ed, Charles Karel Bouley writes, “…even they know how wrong, how beyond-the-pale their arguments are…And those that defend Prop 8 have spent millions to make sure people don’t understand what it really, truly is: Religious ideology codified as law”.

The Supreme Court, which will most likely hear the case at the end of the road, has an interest in keeping people in the dark, as well. If the same 5 that sided with the defense on the YouTube issue decide that Prop 8 does not violate the Constitution, they’d sure have a lot to explain if anyone with YouTube (read: everyone) could check out the faulty arguments and sorely lacking evidence they based their decision on. Supreme Court Justices can, afterall, be impeached if they fail to hold up their one and only duty: to protect Constitutional rights.

Much to the chagrin of Prop 8 proponents and perhaps the Supreme Court, we crafty equality-lovers always find a way. We’ve got blogs-a-plenty like the Courage Campaign Prop 8 Trial Tracker, Fire Dog Lake’s coverage, the Box Turtle Bulletin and even a series of Trial Reenactment videos. Awesome!

All this underground coverage pretty much confirms that the defense’s bark is worse than their bite. Their main arguments hinge on the ideas that:

- Procreation is the central purpose of marriage (so presumably, couples who don’t procreate shouldn’t be allowed to get married);

- Anything outside of “traditional marriage” is harmful to the development of children (admit it: children of divorced parents and single mothers are pretty messed up);

- Marriage has “always been this way” (which a ton of historical data will easily disprove);

- Sexual orientation, unlike race or gender, can change (well that is just offensive, not to mention ignorant);

- And gays and lesbians have more political power than the plaintiff would have you believe (you know, with all those elected offices held by gays and lesbians, they’re practically running the show these days);

Correct me if I’m wrong, but had they used some of these arguments in the initial campaign, I think they would have offended some of their supporters, no? How convenient for them that this trial wasn’t recorded.

To make their sad, sad situation worse, not only has each of their arguments been refuted by numerous witnesses for the plaintiff, but their own witnesses can’t even back up these imaginary claims.

To be fair, only two showed up. Shows you just how willing people are to support discrimination when they know their actions will go down in history. For a little amusement read this and this.

Meanwhile the plaintiff presented two weeks’ worth of witnesses and exhibits seeking to demonstrate that Prop 8 was motivated by nothing but discrimination against a particular class of citizens – relegating gays and lesbians to an inferior status. To do so, they have brought in numerous experts and scholars to prove that parental fitness has nothing to do with sexual orientation and that marriage is an evolving institution. They have also focused on revealing an historical pattern of discrimination similar to that which has been perpetrated upon citizens of other protected classes, namely women and African-Americans.

The Mayor of San Diego’s testimony sums up the plaintiff’s strategy in a nutshell and for extra reading on religion’s role in the whole thing read this.

Phew…that’s a lot to take in. But now you are up to speed and can eagerly await the closing arguments on Feb. 26. As previously mentioned, the case will most likely end up at the Supreme Court, in which case the Court will have an opportunity to make history by siding with progress in a time when the nation’s public opinion may not be up to speed, as they did in 1954 with Brown v. Board of Education and in 1967 with Loving v. Virginia. I wouldn’t place any bets on it, but no matter what the outcome is, I implore you to continue to fight for equal protection for all citizens. It’s up to us to make sure that the truth comes out and justice prevails.

This article was featured in our February 2010 monthly Choices eZine. Sign up for our alerts to stay up-to-date with the latest feminist news and to receive the monthly eZine.