Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Bristol Palin: "Learn from my example"

And what example would that be, Bristol? Is it that sex leads to babies, parenting is hard, or, as you have said, "abstinence is not realistic."

Making the rounds on morning TV, Bristol Palin spoke of the importance of abstinence as the newest Teen Ambassador for The Candie's Foundation, an organization that promotes abstinence-only and educates teens about the "devastating consequences of teen pregnancy."


It would be easier to agree with Matt Lauer's assessment of "do as I say, not as I do" if I could actually follow what she is saying. "Teenagers of America, do not have sex. That is, of course, unless you do have sex at which point you should be sure to have safe sex. But never mind with the pesky details about how to actually practice safe sex. So let's just make this easier for everyone and blissfully ignore the old adage "knowledge is power" and keep it simple with 'just say no' and this festive tank top from The Candies Foundation. Good night and good luck (really, you'll need it)."

The funny thing about an abstinence-only message is, of course, that it is abstinence only and, therefore, will not teach young people about condoms and contraception EVEN IF THEY WANTED TO HAVE SAFE SEX. Don't you see the catch here, Bristol?

With increased rates of teen pregnancy, young people need, now more than ever, a comprehensive approach that includes a message of abstinence (indeed, Bristol, it is a full-proof method to avoiding an "accessory on your hip") but also medically accurate, fact based information about contraception and sexual health. They need the ability to make an informed choice. In short, they need to get REAL (literally).

2 comments:

On The Issues Magazine said...

Abstinence Only sex education clearly didn't "work" for Bristol Palin. At On The Issues Magazine see "Shaping Sexual Futures On A Budget" by Donna Schaper. In the story, Schaper suggests a whole new way of thinking about sex education:

"violence-free, pleasure-present and children-chosen"

http://www.ontheissuesmagazine.com/2009spring/2009spring_3.php

WendyM said...

My favorite quote from your post: "So let's just make this easier for everyone and blissfully ignore the old adage "knowledge is power" and keep it simple with 'just say no'..."